Travel & events
Parties, takeovers and getaways for couples who like to dress up, go out and enjoy being seen together, whether she’s the vixen, he’s the proud stag, or you’re just curious.
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18+ only. Most events are 21+ and need membership, tickets and ID. 24 upcoming events and 7 destinations, with dates copied exactly as each organizer publishes them (last checked Oct 5, 2026). Plans change, so confirm on the official page before you book. A listing is not an endorsement, and nobody pays to be here.
Upcoming lifestyle events
Club parties, hotel takeovers, resort weeks and cruises, sorted by month. Each one is linked straight to the organizer’s own page.
October 2026 13 events
- Hotel takeoverSan Antonio
Shameless in San Antonio: Riverwalk Hotel Takeover
Club Eden · Riverwalk Plaza Hotel · San Antonio, TX
The Eden clubs take over a River Walk hotel for a long weekend: meet-and-greets, pool parties, themed ballroom nights (including a Halloween costume party) and late-night playrooms. A fun road trip from the DFW club.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
- CruiseMiami / South Florida
Temptation Caribbean Cruise (October 2026)
Temptation Cruises · Round trip from Miami: Great Stirrup Cay, Key West, Nassau · Miami, FL
A short, adults-only party cruise from the team behind Temptation Cancun: pool parties, workshops and DJs at sea, with stops in the Bahamas and Key West. An easy first cruise if you’re testing the waters.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
- Hotel takeoverNew Orleans
Naughty Halloween 2026
Naughty Events · The NOPSI Hotel · New Orleans, LA
The team behind Naughty N’awlins books every room in one hotel for Halloween weekend, in the city that does Halloween best. Leave time to explore the French Quarter together.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
- Club nightLos Angeles
Halloween Main Event at Club Joi
Club Joi · Los Angeles, CA
LA’s big members-only Halloween night, the night after their Friday Halloween Kickoff. Costumes on, confidence up. Apply for membership well before the weekend.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
- Club weekendLas Vegas
Helloween Weekend
Red Rooster · Las Vegas, NV
Two nights of Halloween at one of Vegas’s longest-running lifestyle venues. BYOB, and the club says no reservations are needed.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
- Club nightMiami / South Florida
26th Annual Halloween Masquerade
Miami Velvet · Miami, FL
A long-running masquerade night at one of South Florida’s best-known lifestyle clubs. Club membership is required, so sort that out before you buy a ticket.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
- Club nightDenver
Erotic Halloween Ball
Scarlet Ranch · Squirrel Creek Lodge · Littleton (Denver), CO
Denver’s classic lifestyle Halloween ball, with a couples’ costume contest. There’s a Trick or Treat night the evening before if you want to make a weekend of it.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
- Resort partyCancún & Riviera Maya
Ghouls Just Wanna Have Fun (Halloween theme night)
Temptation Cancun Resort · Cancún, Quintana Roo
The resort’s Halloween costume night. All October, Temptation also runs a couples-only playroom on weeknights, so a late-October trip gets you both.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
- Club nightDallas / Fort Worth
Halloween @ Eden DFW
Club Eden DFW · Euless (Dallas / Fort Worth), TX
Halloween night between Dallas and Fort Worth. Come sexy or come scary.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
- Club nightSeattle / Tacoma
Halloween ~ Wicked Ball
Club Sapphire · Tukwila (Seattle), WA
The finale of Sapphire’s Halloween week and, by the club’s own account, its biggest party of the year, with a costume stage. It usually sells out, so get tickets early.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
- Club nightSF Bay Area
Twist Halloween Party
Twist SF · Twist · San Francisco, CA
Halloween night at the North Beach club, the last of several Halloween parties Twist runs through late October.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
- Club nightWashington DC / Baltimore
Halloween Blackout
TABU Lifestyle Club · TABU · Catonsville (Baltimore), MD
TABU’s signature blackout party with a Halloween costume contest. Costumes are encouraged rather than required, and tickets are required because it sells out.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
- Resort partyOrlando
Hallowswing® 17: Carnival of Terror
Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa · Kissimmee (Orlando), FL
The main night of the resort’s Hallowswing series, which also has themed nights earlier in the week. Stay on site and you won’t need a ride home.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
November 2026 1 event
- CruiseMiami / South Florida
Bliss Wonderland Cruise
Bliss Cruise · Round trip from Miami: Curaçao & Aruba · Miami, FL
A full week at sea with a lifestyle crowd, with island days in Curaçao and Aruba. Book your pre-cruise hotel early.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
December 2026 1 event
- Club nightMiami / South Florida
SDC Winter Glow Party
Miami Velvet · Miami, FL
An early-December party for couples and single ladies, with house and hip-hop in the main room and Latin music in the Red Room.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
February 2027 2 events
- CruiseSan Juan, Puerto Rico
Desire San Juan – Southern Caribbean Cruise 2027
Desire Cruises · Round trip from San Juan: Aruba, Curaçao, St. Maarten, St. Thomas · San Juan, Puerto Rico
A couples-only cruise from the Desire resort brand: theme nights, workshops and a dedicated playroom on board, and the week includes Valentine’s Day.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
- CruiseTampa
Bliss Fiesta Cruise
Bliss Cruise · Round trip from Tampa: Cozumel, Mexico · Tampa, FL
A four-night, Mexican-themed sailing to Cozumel, with an official pre-party at Caliente Resort the night before departure. A good long-weekend option.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
April 2027 2 events
- CruiseMiami / South Florida
Bliss Celestial Cruise
Bliss Cruise · Round trip from Fort Lauderdale: Cabo Rojo (DR) & Grand Turk · Fort Lauderdale, FL
Six spring nights at sea with two island stops. Fort Lauderdale’s port makes it an easy fly-in.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
- Resort takeoverCancún & Riviera Maya
TRYST 2027 Temptation Resort Takeover
Desire Vacations / Right Connections Travel · Temptation Cancun Resort · Cancún, Quintana Roo
Five nights with the whole resort taken over: DJ pool parties by day and themed nights after dark.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
May 2027 1 event
- Group tripCancún & Riviera Maya
LLV Desire RM Memorial Weekend 2027
LLV Club · Desire Riviera Maya Resort · Puerto Morelos, Quintana Roo
A hosted group stay over Memorial Day weekend at the couples-only Desire Riviera Maya. Traveling with a group takes the guesswork out of a first resort trip.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
July 2027 1 event
- ConventionNew Orleans
Naughty N’awlins 2027
Naughty Events · Host hotels in New Orleans · New Orleans, LA
The classic summer lifestyle convention: seminars, nightly theme balls, pool parties and Bourbon Street, all in one long weekend. The organizer says themes are announced before the end of the year.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
October 2027 2 events
- CruiseMiami / South Florida
Temptation Caribbean Cruise (October 2027)
Temptation Cruises · Round trip from Miami: Jamaica & Grand Cayman · Miami, FL
Five days with two full sea days for pool parties and theme nights, plus stops in Jamaica and Grand Cayman.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
- Resort takeoverCancún & Riviera Maya
TRYST 2.0 (October 2027)
Desire Vacations / Right Connections Travel · Riviera Maya resort (see event page) · Puerto Aventuras, Quintana Roo
A smaller, boutique version of TRYST south of Cancún, built around a closer crowd, pool days and themed nights.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
November 2027 1 event
- CruiseMiami / South Florida
Bliss Saints & Sinners Cruise
Bliss Cruise · Round trip from Miami: St. Maarten & St. Kitts · Miami, FL
Seven nights with an angels-and-devils theme from formal night to lingerie night. Plenty of time to plan your outfits together.
Dates as published · verified Oct 5, 2026
Events by metro
The same events, grouped by city. Many hosts are already on our clubs-by-city list.
Dallas / Fort Worth TX
- Halloween @ Eden DFW Oct 31, 2026
Denver CO
- Erotic Halloween Ball Oct 31, 2026
Las Vegas NV
- Helloween Weekend Oct 30–31, 2026
Los Angeles CA
- Halloween Main Event at Club Joi Oct 24, 2026
Miami / South Florida FL
- Temptation Caribbean Cruise (October 2026) Oct 20–25, 2026
- 26th Annual Halloween Masquerade Oct 31, 2026
- Bliss Wonderland Cruise Nov 9–16, 2026
- SDC Winter Glow Party Dec 5, 2026
- Bliss Celestial Cruise Apr 18–24, 2027
- Temptation Caribbean Cruise (October 2027) Oct 16–21, 2027
- Bliss Saints & Sinners Cruise Nov 8–15, 2027
New Orleans LA
- Naughty Halloween 2026 Oct 21–25, 2026
- Naughty N’awlins 2027 Jul 7–11, 2027
Orlando FL
- Hallowswing® 17: Carnival of Terror Oct 31 – Nov 1, 2026
SF Bay Area CA
- Twist Halloween Party Oct 31, 2026
San Antonio TX
- Shameless in San Antonio: Riverwalk Hotel Takeover Oct 15–18, 2026
San Juan, Puerto Rico Puerto Rico
- Desire San Juan – Southern Caribbean Cruise 2027 Feb 12–19, 2027
Seattle / Tacoma WA
- Halloween ~ Wicked Ball Oct 31, 2026
Tampa FL
- Bliss Fiesta Cruise Feb 24–28, 2027
Washington DC / Baltimore MD
- Halloween Blackout Oct 31 – Nov 1, 2026
Cancún & Riviera Maya Mexico
- Ghouls Just Wanna Have Fun (Halloween theme night) Oct 31, 2026
- TRYST 2027 Temptation Resort Takeover Apr 20–25, 2027
- LLV Desire RM Memorial Weekend 2027 May 27 – Jun 1, 2027
- TRYST 2.0 (October 2027) Oct 19–24, 2027
Lifestyle-friendly destinations
Couples-only and adults-only resorts, city breaks and cruise ports where the lifestyle crowd feels at home.
United States 4
- Lifestyle resortKissimmee, FL (Orlando)
Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa
A lifestyle resort with its own club, pool parties and regular newcomer meet-and-greets, a short drive from the Orlando parks. Its Hallowswing week is a highlight of the year.
Verified Oct 5, 2026
- City breakLouisiana
New Orleans
Naughty Events takes over hotels here twice a year (Halloween and July), and Colette New Orleans is open Wednesday through Saturday. Add great food and a walkable French Quarter.
Verified Oct 5, 2026
- City breakNevada
Las Vegas
Long-running lifestyle clubs (The Green Door, Red Rooster) open late most of the week, plus shows, pools and flights from almost anywhere. An easy weekend for two.
Verified Oct 5, 2026
- Cruise portsFlorida cruise ports
Miami, Fort Lauderdale & Tampa
Every Bliss and Temptation cruise on this page sails from Florida. Fly in a day early and spend the night before at Miami Velvet or Trapeze Fort Lauderdale.
Verified Oct 5, 2026
Mexico 3
- Adults-only resort (21+)Cancún, Quintana Roo
Temptation Cancun Resort
A high-energy, top-optional, all-inclusive resort with nightly theme parties and foam pool parties. It hosts the TRYST takeover each spring.
Verified Oct 5, 2026
- Couples-only resortPuerto Morelos, Quintana Roo
Desire Riviera Maya Resort
A couples-only, all-inclusive beach resort with clothing-optional (au naturel) areas and nightly dress-code themes. Relaxed by day, flirty after dark.
Verified Oct 5, 2026
- Couples-only resortPuerto Morelos, Quintana Roo
Desire Pearl Riviera Maya Resort
Desire’s sister resort on the same coast: couples only, an au naturel pool, weekly pool parties and a different theme night every evening.
Verified Oct 5, 2026
Hedonism II, Negril, Jamaica. Outside our US & Mexico focus, but a classic: an adults-only resort that runs dedicated lifestyle weeks. Upcoming lifestyle weeks: Dirty Perv Week (); Hedo Swing Breakers (); Lifestyle Fantasy Week (). Resort site.
Recurring — see their calendar
Organizers and venues that run events all year. We list a date here only once we’ve seen it on their own page.
- RecurringTwo Creeks Campground, Upper Midwest
SwingStock
A summer lifestyle campout and festival. 2027 dates weren’t published when we checked.
- RecurringPuerto Morelos, Mexico
Desire Resorts special events
Holiday pool parties and special theme nights at both Desire resorts. Check their calendar for the dates of your stay.
- RecurringDallas, Houston, Austin, New Orleans
Colette clubs
Private clubs in four cities that throw holiday and theme parties. See each club’s calendar.
- RecurringAtlanta & Fort Lauderdale
Trapeze
Themed nights and costume contests through the year. Confirm dates on their own calendar.
- RecurringNationwide
Kasidie event listings
A community calendar of club nights, house parties and takeovers in every state.
- RecurringNationwide
SDC event & travel listings
A large community with club, event and travel listings, including takeovers.
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